MUM GUILT | ORGANISING THE KIDS CLOTHES | VLOG | SafsLife
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I tried to vlog but mum guilt took over! Please let me know how you all manage to juggle everything and spend quality time with your kids! and let me know what …
Hi saf u are a amazing mum and doing everything you can for your kids.dont beat yourself up.i have experienced mum guilt I have 4 kids and very busy all the time I tend to spend a little time in evening either to read or if they want play but we usually put a film on and watch with some treats.hope this makes you feel a bit better.dont worry enjoy everyday with them.🤗xx
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Totally agree and so nice to hear another person feel similar. One thing that has massively helped me is to declutter clothes and toys, make a rotation toy box and this will help cut down on chores. Don’t feel guilty for wanting a clean house – that is a natural innate need that the majority of mums want and need. So to achieve that – having less to organise will help.
Really loving your videos
May Allah make it easy for you 🙏 ameen. As mothers we have the toughest job in the world which is also rewarding.
Looking after ourselves is a must in order to be there for our children. Asking for help or taking a step back doesn't mean we have failed.
I also went home bargains after seeing your haul lol and literally got what you did. Allah sees us and our intentions ❤ xx
It’s ok sis,we all go through this ❤️❤️
Honestly Saf I have these guilty feelings everyday .. it’s very difficult to organize everything… be kind to yourself because you are a fantastic mom 💗💗🤗
Oh yeah that’s right this safs life
Carry on doing what you do! You cant give your kids what they need, if ur empty n drained urself. Looking after your mental n physical well being is also essential for your kids. Xx
Allhamduliah, just by feeling guilty about not being able to spend quality time with your kidz just goes to show how an amazing mum you are. Don't worry it will all get easier. Start off with at least 30 minutes a day of playing or entertaining them cause its not easy juggling never ending house chores and a job. Xx
Dearest Sister Asalaamulakum
Don't feel guilty we all go through mum gulit. We have to work, look after family and look after the house. Just do your best. As long as your intentions are good.x.We mum's are brilliant. X.
Awwe lovely your doing an amazing job.Just remember to take some time out for yourself,because a healthy and happy mummy is also important.We all struggle sometimes that’s what makes us even stronger.Wishing you and little ones happiness and good health.
You are super mom sis!!! You and your kids are so blessed Mashallah!!!! ❤️🙏❤️🙏
Dear saf.. we all have been pass through this mood multiple times ..its just like postpartum depression..but its totally normal for everyone..we are humans it means we are not perfect n nobody is perfect..Allah just want positive energy n willing to do things even if u r doing 50% percent thats it..no one can make 100%.u love ur kids whatever u can do u r doing that ..thats it..its enough to make u better mom..
Never looking for getting 100 out of 100..
We all are here to support u ..dont worry..
Dont stress.. U r a dedicated mum mashallah. U r doing the best U can and IA things will fall into place aameen xx
Just reading you title..even before i watched your vid i wanted to message you to tell you your not a bad mum at all, your amazing Masha Allah, trust me we all have mum guilt..we are trying to juggle everything in 24 hours..i honestly think theres not enough hours in the day lol.. will definitely try out that app. Im a mama of 7 my eldest is 14 ..youngest is 11 weeks so u can imagine i have lots of mum guilt moments…when it comes to catching up house work for the daily tasks i put a alarm on my phone so i do as much as i can in that time then when the times up i will go and chill with the kids until i have to go and geton with cooking or more cleaning..if im having a busy day of cleaning i will call them randomly to come and keep me company while im doing something..its hard trying to fit it all in but dont beat up make sure u.get some mum time..a happy de stressed mum means happy kids..my mum time today was hiding in my room watching ur video with a cuppa tea while the kids are watching a movie…now im de stressed and will join then for a bit before dishing up there dinner!!!!
good sharing my sis
You are strong dear. No one is perfect.
Dont feel bad Saf Ma Sha Allah your a great mum ♡ your beautiful children are so so lucky Alhamdulillah ♡
And I just want to say your kids have been so churpy these last couple of videos. Especially Esa Ma Sha Allah ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
Ome of the most amazing mums out here. Your such a cool mum. You work soo hard and we see it. Dont feel bad about it x
We all go through guilt try and not beat yourself up about it I have done it myself xx
You are doing a really great job lovely mum xx
Awww saf don’t feel guilty or bad we all do it and it’s normal has a mum to take time out for yourself, some are lucky than others they have somewhere they can send their children to like grandparents for the weekend or day so we mums can have our own “me time” but if you don’t have anyone like myself I don’t then you just have to make that time for yourself because when we wine down that’s when we can give our kids the best becoz we are energised, you are doing a fantastic job sis always putting your kids before anything so be proud of yourself 👏👏👏👏
You’re doing just fine I’m in the same exact boat momma! You’re superwoman and they love you 😍
Plus kids r sooo nosey nowa days and so active can get hard to entertain them
Hun ask ur hubby to look afyer thrm so u cam have a break… Or let aleesa go to her cousins and stuff and try not to keep house clean all tym miss a day and just spend time with them and stuff…. My hubby has never done anything as av always done everythung but recently ive been ill so ive asked him every oda day just to gve me a hr or 2 to either nap bath or even clean
Saf We all have days like these, I have 4 children and youngest is 1. I have no help either so I can relate to what you are feeling. I keep reminding myself I am doing the best I can as a mum and Allah knows that. I do try and not worry too much about house now because its never ending, there is always something that needs to be done. I only do important things and no more. You are in my prayers Saf.
Mum guilt is so real 😔😥
You oaky
Did you do all of the cleaning up the cloths and stuff
Yes saf here ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Your doing a great job. Your securing your kid's future. They happy kid's means your doing a great job. Chill relax hun life is take it step at a time your human after all we all get tried I'm a mother of 4 kid's alhumdulillah I do my best don't pressure yourself your great mama ☺️
Ma Sha ALLAH You are managing everything so perfect .May ALLAH SWT gives u more & more strength to fulfill all ur responsibilities 🤗😘
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You are doing an amazing job! Cooking for them and making sure their environment is safe and clean is part of being a good Mum. You are awesome stay blessed XXX
Salaam Saf. MashaAllah you are doing a fantastic job with kids. And yes sometimes we need to take time for your self so that we can looking after everyone else 💚
You are doing an amazing job sis your kids are so lucky to have you ❤️❤️
You are an amazing mum it’s always tricky to balance everything and I don’t think anyone has it figured out because life can throw anything at you and at anytime. Definitely not selfish to look after yourself.. this bank holiday weekend I’m doing nothing I’m just relaxing and playing with my kids.. the house work can wait
Wa alaikum Salam sis pray you and the kids are well InshaAllah.. Just enjoying my first cup of tea of the day in the garden in this gorgeous sunny weather Alhumdulillah.. Watching your vlog 😍😍🌞🌞
You are doing so great, I bet all mums feel like that. Just think Its not normal if you don't feel like that 💕
Ur not a bad Mum U r an amazing mama😍…we all have this phases time to time I relate to alot on a daily basis ngl ..we do alot as mum's ..SubhanAllah xsometyms I jus have to put house chores aside n spend a bit of tym with the kids 😍😘